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Sex Toys For Beginners

Sex Toys For Beginners

Guide To Buying The Right Sex Toy For Yourself


Looking for the best sex toys for beginners, we have put together a guide to buying the right sex toy suited for you.

There’s never been a better time to be looking for some product to enhance your sexual experience. The range of things available is almost as unlimited as your imagination. Beyond taking your orgasm to new heights choosing the right sex toy can help you learn so much about what you (and your partner) really want in bed.

No matter where you look these days,  sex toys are popping up all over the place. They are in your favorite magazines and your favorite TV shows. And that’s because the misguided stigma that sex toys are only for lonely or desperate people has finally disappeared. Recently there has been a positive transformation in the way that we talk about female & male pleasure and orgasm.


Is it normal for you to use sex toys?


There is now a much broader understanding that sex toys are not here to replace anyone. They are designed to give the user more pleasure and help you achieve more orgasms. The stigma around these toys may be waning, the orgasm gap between women and men is not. And that is why female sex toys are so important. Using sex toys is a completely normal and healthy activity and there should be no shame in doing so. Masturbation and orgasm have so many benefits for females & males. From lowering our stress levels to easing menstrual cramps and even making us happier, sex toys are all about helping us to get there. Thus it is also important to get to know your sex toys and how they work.

Sex Toys For Beginners - Guide To Buying The Right Sex Toy For You

What are the best sex toys for beginners?


Finding the best sex toys for beginners is actually an easy task if you know what to look for. Start with a toy for an area that you know you get great pleasure from and start small.  And, no matter what type of toy you start with, make sure you always buy high-quality sex toys. This doesn’t mean you need to buy the most expensive toy out.  Make sure you are finding a toy that is body-safe and is going to last more than a couple of uses. It is also advisable to use the correct lube with your sex toy to reach all the sensual benefits your toy has to offer.

Everyone’s needs and preferences are different, which is why it can be helpful to explore a variety of options. Here are some of the best sex toys you can try if you’re a total beginner—we guarantee they’ll turn you into a pro in no time.

Rocks-Off Oriel Rechargeable Wand


If you prefer to go with a classic toy, this is it. The Rocks-Off Oriel Rechargeable Wand has been a bestseller and raved about for its strong stimulation—many women swear by it. This cordless, rechargeable version has 10 highly powerful vibration and pulsation levels and features a flexible head for precision stimulation. Bonus: It can double as a neck and back massager.

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Bswish Bthrilled Classic Wand - Purple

Bswish Bthrilled Classic Wand


Let’s be real, vibrators can get super pricey. When you’re first starting out it’s all about experimentation, so if you don’t want to dish out the extra money now, go for something more affordable to figure out what feels the best to you. The Bswish Bthrilled Classic Wand is a good place to start. It’s waterproof, bendable, and offers multiple speeds.

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Fifty Shades Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator


You’ve read the book and seen the film, now let’s re-enact it, with the help of our Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator. On the flip side, you also get what you pay for. Spending a little more on a toy usually means you’re getting a product that’s of a higher quality and will last longer. If you want penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time, a rabbit vibrator is the best option. Waterproof, Rechargeable & 36 possible vibe combos for total thrilling control offers internal and external stimulation.

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Rocks-Off RO-80mm Vibrating Bullet 7 Speed - Rainbow

Rocks-Off RO-80mm

Bullet vibrators also known as Mini Vibrators are often a good choice for beginners because they’re small with decent vibrating power. The Rocks-Off RO-80mm has a tapered tip, so you can directly target different areas of your clitoris and vulva—packing a powerful punch when it comes to your orgasm.

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Lelo Sona 2 Sonic Clitoral Massager - Cerise

Lelo Sona 2 Sonic


The Lelo Sona 2 Sonic has a suction cup-like head that stimulates your clitoris using air technology with adjustable intensity. That ends up creating a really unique sensation similar to oral sex with a tongue, but no partner needed! Place the toy near or around the head of your clitoris or you can position it all around the vulva and give the fourchette (the thin fold of skin at the back of your vulva) some love.

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Fun Factory The Boss Stub Dildo - Nude

Fun Factory The Nude Boss Stub Dildo


If it’s penetration you’re after, a silicone dildo is a good choice. Silicone feels like skin so you get a more realistic experience. Dildos are often less intimidating to sex toy newbies compared to some of the kinkier options. The Fun Factory The Nude Boss Stub Dildo is 17.9cm long, Flexible, shaped to follow natural curves, and is easily cleaned.

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Fifty Shades Weekend Secret Touching Finger Vibrator

Fifty Shades Weekend Secret Touching Finger Vibrator


This vibrator is tiny but mighty. The Fifty Shades Weekend Secret Touching Finger Vibrator slips over your fingers and helps you engage in a little self-love with your hands and then some, thanks to its three different speeds. The ideal part of this toy is how easy it is to use with a partner. Unlike other toys that are bulky, this can actually fit by tucking the sides for oral or various positions.

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Bswish Bcharmed Basic Plus Cock Ring - Sea Foam

Bswish Bcharmed Basic Plus


A vibrating cock ring gives him a stronger, harder erection by sending blood flow to the penis, while the vibrations target your clitoris for extra stimulation. The Bswish Bcharmed Basic Plus is stretchy, made of soft silicone, and has a five-speed motor—perfect for couples! 

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